Prom Night

In typical teenager fashion, Kyle decided to attend last night’s junior prom a few days before the ticket deadline. One of Kyle’s friends from grade school – a girl I always wish he would dating (she’s incredibly nice) – set him up with one of her friends from high school. Lily, as you can see, is also a redhead, and Julia was very happy she could claim two “Ginger Buddies.”

Lily came to our house last night for pictures, then they went to the local park for group photos with their friends. I missed out on the occasion – and many chances to embarrass Kyle – because Kevin had belt testing for karate. (When Kevin saw the photos afterward, he told Mrs. Earp, “LIly looks like a Disney princess.”)

I’m daywork this week, so I wasn’t awake when Kyle got home, but Mrs. Earp said they had a very good time, and Kyle said he was glad he went.

Which brings me to another point. As far as dating is concerned, times have certainly changed since I was a lad. When I was in high school, my school (and surrounding ones) always held dances and socials. We met girls there, and relationships formed out of those events.

Kyle goes to an all-boys school which no longer holds those social functions. Between schoolwork and lacrosse, he doesn’t interact with or otherwise meet girls. As such, he’s never had a girlfriend.

Now, I really have no desire for Kyle to get a girlfriend. The last girl he really liked inexplicably went from a close friendship to despising him in a matter of seconds, and he never really got over it. Plus, as I have told Kyle on many occasions, “Bitches be crazy.” That said, it’s an odd situation to me. He has a lot of female friends from grade school, and from all accounts, Lily is a terrific person, but boys aren’t meeting girls anymore.

6 thoughts on “Prom Night

  1. Wyatt, as to your last comment: I blame it on so called ‘social’ media. Seriously. Many young people have become so dependent on electronic devices to ‘socialize’ they simply don’t know how to do it person-to-person anymore. : (

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  2. William – Agreed. Kyle spends a lot of time on PlayStation 4, but usually joins parties, so he does interact there somewhat. I’m lucky that all my children are outside kids. They ride bikes, roller skate, play sports, etc. when the weather is nice. Every weekend – including tonight, probably – a group of Kyle’s friends come to out house and clutter my man cave.

    My niece Kaitlin, who I’m posting about later, just broke up with her boyfriend. She’s a sophomore at PItt, and he was her first boyfriend. It’s just so different from when we were young.

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